A Qur'anic Approach to Family Communication: The Example of Noah's Dialogue with His Son

Abstract

The family is not only the primary social institution that meets individuals' basic needs, but also the oldest structured unit in which ongoing communication between parents and children is sustained. It plays a vital role in the transmission of religious, moral, and cultural values, as well as in the socialization of individuals. Accordingly, the presence of a healthy family structure is a prerequisite for a healthy society. While parents bear significant responsibilities in transmitting tradition, flawed methods and inappropriate wording may harm communication, particularly with individuals susceptible to modern ideologies. The frequent generational conflicts observed today often originate from such communication problems. In this context, Qur'anic narratives- especially the dialogue between Prophet Noah and his son-offer valuable insights into the principles of intra-family communication. The incident that took place during the Flood is described in the Qur'an as follows: And [the Ark] sailed with them through waves like mountains. And Noah called out to his son, who stood apart: 'O my dear son! Embark with us and do not be among the disbelievers.' He replied: 'I shall take refuge on a mountain that will protect me from the water.' Noah said: 'There is no protection today from the decree of God, except for those to whom He grants mercy.' Then a wave came between them, and he was among the drowned (H & umacr;d 11:42-43). The aim of this study is to offer reflections on family communication in light of this brief yet profoundly meaningful dialogue, in which Noah's son ultimately rejects his father's plea. The central objective is to identify the core principles of family communication exemplified in this exchange. This study employs both descriptive and analytical methods, with the analytical approach being the predominant one. While Noah's son is portrayed as bold, determined, and defiant, Noah himself is presented as a hopeful and compassionate father and prophet who persistently uses a gentle and persuasive tone. Ultimately, this Qur'anic narrative underscores the significance of compassion, patience, hope, and persuasion as fundamental elements in effective family communication.